In her Washington office, clinical psychologist Dr. Patricia Dalton has "seen small children call their parents names and tell them how stupid they are; ...[A]dolescents use strings of expletives toward them ... and one 6-year-old whose parents told [her] he refused to obey, debated them ad nauseum and sometimes even lashed out. As if on cue, the boy kicked his father right there in the office. When [she] asked the father how he reacts at home, he told [her] that he runs to another room! It came to [her] like a lightning bolt: Not only are the kids unafraid of their parents, parents are afraid of their kids!" Dr. Dalton joins me to talk about her recent Washington Post guest column, "A Lost Art: Instilling Respect," and what she sees as a disturbing development in child rearing and parenting styles, and how parents might change direction.
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